Simple & meaningful
The Elopement
$400
An intimate wine country elopement in Sonoma, Napa, or Mendocino, with a short custom ceremony and all the essential details handled.
- Short custom ceremony
- Marriage license signing
- Couple and witnesses
Wedding Officiant · Sonoma · Napa · Mendocino
Wine Country Wedding Officiant
Modern, heartfelt ceremonies from a wedding officiant serving Sonoma, Napa, and Mendocino wine country—each one crafted around your story.
Ceremony packages
Choose the celebration that feels like you.
From a private exchange of vows to a fully custom ceremony, every package includes calm guidance and thoughtful care.
Warm & personal
The Intimate
$650
A personalized ceremony for your closest circle, shaped with care by a wedding officiant who serves Sonoma, Napa, and Mendocino.
- Up to approximately 30 guests
- Personalized ceremony
- Planning call beforehand
The full story
The Signature
$950
A fully custom wine country ceremony written around your story, with hands-on support for weddings across Sonoma, Napa, and Mendocino.
- Custom ceremony writing
- Rehearsal attendance
- Unlimited planning support
A 50% retainer reserves your date. Travel is included across Sonoma, Napa, and Mendocino counties.
Meet your officiant
Hi, I’m Peter.
I’m an ordained minister with a background in hospitality—which means I sweat the small stuff so you don’t have to.
My experience in hospitality will make your wedding day your most perfect day. From intimate vineyard elopements to joyful destination celebrations, every ceremony I officiate is personal, unhurried, and unmistakably yours.
Where I officiate
Wedding ceremonies across wine country.
Local knowledge, thoughtful preparation, and a ceremony shaped for the landscape you chose.
Napa Wedding Officiant
As a wedding officiant in Napa, Peter creates personal ceremonies for winery terraces, vineyard lawns, and elegant Napa Valley estates.
From an intimate exchange among the vines to a grand celebration overlooking the valley, every ceremony is written to feel at home in the setting.
Sonoma Wedding Officiant
A Sonoma wedding officiant should understand the many moods of the county—from the Russian River and towering redwood groves to sunlit wine country estates.
Peter brings calm hospitality and a heartfelt, bespoke ceremony to each Sonoma celebration.
Mendocino Wedding Officiant
As a Mendocino wedding officiant, Peter serves ceremonies in Anderson Valley vineyards, beneath redwoods, and along the dramatic Mendocino coast.
Whether your day feels rustic, refined, or wonderfully wild, the ceremony is crafted around your story and surroundings.
In the moment
Real joy, wine country dreams.
Real moments from Peter’s ceremonies, followed by a little California wine country inspiration.
From the journal
Stories from wine country.
Thoughts on meaningful ceremonies, unforgettable settings, and celebrating your way.
Wine country weddings
There's Nowhere Like Wine Country to Say "I Do"
Why Sonoma, Napa, and Mendocino make an unforgettable setting for a ceremony that feels entirely your own.
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Sonoma elopements
Eloping in Sonoma Wine Country: A Simple Guide
From vineyard rows to redwood groves, plan an intimate day that keeps the focus exactly where it belongs.
Read the guide
Napa ceremonies
Napa Valley Vineyard Ceremony Ideas
Thoughtful ideas for the view, golden-hour light, wine rituals, seating, sound, and changing valley weather.
Read the ideas
Sonoma ceremonies
What to Look for in a Sonoma Wedding Officiant
How to find someone who understands your story, your setting, and the small details that help a wine country ceremony feel effortless.
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Napa elopements
Planning a Napa Elopement: An Officiant’s Checklist
A calm, practical checklist for the ceremony, license, witnesses, timing, weather, and the few things worth bringing.
Read the checklist
Mendocino weddings
Planning a Mendocino Wedding Ceremony Around the Landscape
Practical ways to let the coast, redwoods, or Anderson Valley shape the ceremony without letting the elements run the day.
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Planning advice
How to Choose Your Wedding Officiant
The questions, qualities, and local experience that help you find the right person to stand beside you.
Read the guideFrom the couples
Kind words from happy couples.
Honest notes from couples Peter has had the joy of marrying.
“I cannot recommend our officiant Peter Oakes enough. He wrote the perfect vows with our backstory, was fun and incredibly professional, and joined us after the ceremony and raised a glass with us. Our entire party thought he was perfect. If you’re seeing this Peter, thanks again, my friend. You made our special day amazing. Hopefully officiating is your calling because it suits you perfectly.”— Marcus F., Yelp review
“Peter made our special day in Hawaii perfect!”— Katie & David
“Peter made our wedding easy. He’s professional and really cared about us!”— Jeff & Amy
“Peter is the best—we are using him when we renew our vows in ten years!”— Bryan & Michael
Good to know
Questions, answered.
A little clarity goes a long way. Here are the things couples ask most often.
I book anywhere from one month to two years in advance. Wine country’s spring and fall seasons fill quickly, so the earlier the better—but if your date is open, it’s yours.
Just a marriage license from any California county clerk’s office. You both go in together with valid photo IDs—no blood test, no waiting period—and the license is valid for 90 days. I’ll take it from there on the day, guiding the signing and making sure everything is completed properly so your marriage is officially recorded.
Yes, you absolutely can—write your own, borrow classic lines, or mix the two. I’ll help you shape them so they sound like you on your best day.
Yes, I can. Rehearsal attendance is included with The Signature package and available as an add-on for Elopement and Intimate ceremonies. We’ll walk through every moment so the day itself feels effortless.
Yes—travel is included throughout Sonoma, Napa, and Mendocino counties. Getting married further afield or planning a destination wedding? Let’s talk. I’ve officiated everywhere from Hawaii to wine country, and I love to travel.
That all depends on your religious views and what feels right to you. As an ordained minister, I can craft anything from deeply spiritual to completely secular—every ceremony is bespoke, built around your beliefs, your traditions, and your story. All couples and all love stories are welcome.
A 50% retainer reserves your date on my calendar, and the remaining balance is due two weeks before your wedding. Simple, transparent, no surprises.
We’ve done ceremonies in all weather—sunshine, ocean wind, and yes, rain. I arrive early, coordinate with your venue or planner, and we adapt gracefully so the moment still feels perfect, whatever the sky is doing.
A simple process
From first hello to “I do.”
01
Say hello
Reach out and tell me about your day, your people, and what matters most.
02
We craft your ceremony
Together we shape the vows, readings, tone, and flow around your story.
03
Rehearsal
With the Signature package, we walk through the ceremony so everyone feels ready.
04
The big day
You stay present, breathe it all in, and enjoy the moment. I’ll handle the rest.
Check your date
Let’s talk about your day.
Tell me where and when you’re celebrating, and what you want the ceremony to feel like. I’ll reply with availability and next steps.